Access to Justice in Family Law Amidst a Pandemic

This article was originally published in the July 2021 edition of the Contra Costa County Bar Association magazine.

What Worked, What Didn’t, and What May be Here to Stay

The COVID-19 pandemic has shed light on institutions that were badly in need of modernization. The necessity of social distancing to avoid community transmission forced many industries to quickly and efficiently adapt. In certain industries, namely the tech industry, we have already seen a reimagination of the workplace with remote work opportunities available to thousands of workers. But the legal system has always been somewhat behind the curve in keeping up with technology, even in the Bay Area, where the judicial branches ironically find themselves adjudicating the rights and obligations of these titans of innovation, while simultaneously requiring paper filings and in-person hearings. But in 2020, the judicial branch was forced to adapt.

Governor Newsom’s state of emergency announcement on March 16, 2020 closed courthouses. Presiding judges in each county quickly adopted emergency rules, and swiftly implemented their own plans to ensure that the citizens were not denied their access to the judicial branch. In Contra Costa County, emergency rules[1] were passed, including provisions that all family law short-cause matters, including requests for order (RFOs), status conferences, and settlement conferences would be held via Zoom As of the date of writing this article, Contra Costa judges continue to hear family law matters via Zoom, including long causes and trials, with the exception of long-cause domestic violence restraining order hearings.

Virtual court presents difficulties, such as tenuous internet connections, user errors resulting in grotesque echo effects, court reporters struggling to hear what is being said over the background noise of kids and pets, or the misuse of Zoom filters (“I am not a cat.”) The sometimes annoying, often hilarious mishaps of virtual court have certainly created some challenges, but have also created many unanticipated benefits for attorneys and litigants. Attorneys appearing in virtual hearings can do so between other tasks, and can also do billable work on other matters while they are waiting for their case to be called. Typical charges for a court appearance would not include the added cost of travel time, which in many instances (depending on the location of the attorney’s office) saves at least an hour of attorney time, leading to happier clients with lower bills. With over a year’s worth of data in hand, what, if any aspect of these changes should remain? What has worked, and what should we happily discard upon reaching that illustrious herd immunity?

I interviewed two of Contra Costa’s family law bench officers, Judge Danielle Douglas, and Commissioner Christine Donovan. The judges recalled the impact of Zoom hearings and court closures. “We were provided with guidelines from the presiding judge, but each division was given a lot of latitude to come up with its own rules and procedures,” said Judge Douglas. “The family law division drafted its own emergency rules, which was a collaboration with the bench officers, the Family Law facilitators, the clerks, Family Court Services, and the local bar. Our approach to drafting the rules was to see what worked and what didn’t.”

As a result, the emergency rules were regularly amended to accommodate changes in the pandemic. The operative emergency rules effective March 1, 2021 are the 6th iteration. “We got a lot of feedback from attorneys and litigants, everything from the difficulty of finding the correct Zoom link to the filing drop box being too small,” says Judge Douglas. When questioned about how feedback was received from self-represented litigants who may not understand how to communicate their concerns through the correct channels, pro se litigants provided feedback through the facilitators or the clerks, and on occasion during the hearings – and our judges listened and adapted.

Our current family law bench officers understand that access to justice is an ongoing concern in Contra Costa and the state of California. Pre-pandemic, Judge Douglas highlights the addition of the children’s waiting room at the family court, which helps many lower-income litigants. Once the pandemic hit, the court assessed how to serve the community and the resources it could offer to the public. Judge Douglas reports that initially, the principal concern about Zoom hearings was access to the necessary technology. “We considered setting up satellite ‘Zoom rooms’ where litigants could come to a facility and use court-provided devices to log onto their Zoom hearings, and could do so socially distanced.” But this concern was quickly curtailed, as it was soon evident that litigants largely owned the necessary devices to call into their hearings. “Most of the litigants have a device that enables them to do the video feature of Zoom, and if they don’t, they can still call into their hearing and appear without video.”

An unexpected consequence of Zoom hearings was a dramatic increase in litigant’s “show up” rate in family court. Commissioner Donovan commented that calendar adjustments became necessary due to the amount of litigants who were consistently showing up to their hearings. “Before the pandemic, we would typically have 17 matters scheduled for the morning calendar, and on average 12-13 matters would have one or both parties present, and could go forward,” says Commissioner Donovan. Since the implementation of Zoom hearings, her department can only support 12 matters per session, since “most of those matters will have parties present, with maybe one or two no-shows on average.” Similarly, Judge Douglas estimates that pre-pandemic, she typically had a 20-30 percent “no-show” rate. Now, she estimates that 95 percent of self-represented litigants appear at their hearings.

Both judges reported that accessibility of Zoom decreased “no-shows” in court. “In DCSS cases in particular, there will be a lot of out-of-state litigants who could not appear in person to these hearings, but that hurdle has been removed with Zoom,” says Commissioner Donovan. Pre-pandemic, remote appearance required the utilization of third-party services, such as CourtCall, a service heavily utilized in the civil matters, but less so in family law. “The beauty of Zoom is that it’s free, and it’s user-friendly,” says Judge Douglas.

The practical limitations of coming to court are reduced by the implementation of Zoom hearings. “Litigants do not need to secure childcare, transportation, parking and a day off work in order to come to their hearing,” Commissioner Donovan says. “I have seen litigants lock themselves in their bathroom for their hearings as a practical way of ensuring their children are out of earshot, since the bathroom is where a parent can expect to have some privacy,” comments Donovan. Judge Douglas observes that litigants parked in their cars during hearings, which ensure outside noise does not disturb their hearing. “Coming to court is important, because it gives the litigants the opportunity to tell their side of the story and obtain orders that are right,” says Commissioner Donovan. “Zoom hearings are certainly not a panacea, but they provide an important tool in increasing participation in court proceedings.”

The Contra Costa Family Law Facilitator provided instrumental assistance to self-represented litigants in preparing their paperwork and understanding the legal process. “The biggest hurdle for pro pers in family law is the technicalities required for someone to move their case forward,” comments Judge Douglas. The facilitator’s office has historically helped these individuals; they adapted to social distancing by offering virtual appointments, which led to a greater number of litigants receiving services. “The facilitators used to schedule 15-20 minute appointments, three days per week, and assist an average of 15-20 people in a day,” says Judge Douglas. “Now, the facilitators offer a live chat feature through the court website, and between January and April 2021, they have assisted over 3,000 litigants.”

Judge Douglas recognizes challenges faced by court reporters having to create an accurate record during Zoom hearings, particularly due to jumbled audio. Commissioner Donovan reflects upon the difficulties for courtroom interpreters. “Zoom provides a way of doing simultaneous interpretation. When it works, it’s great, but it takes up valuable court time to set everything up and make sure it’s working.” There are also the challenges faced by the bench officers. The judges do not have the benefit of having their bailiffs on Zoom. “I am essentially my own bailiff,” comments Douglas. “If there is an unruly litigant, I have to remove them from the Zoom room, where I used to rely on a bailiff to do so.” Only recently did the department clerks receive cameras for their computers, thus enabling them to take roll before the bench officer appears in court. There are also significant delays in Family Court Services appointments, due largely to FCS being short staffed. But Judge Douglas also notes that the significantly reduced no-show rate for FCS appointments has led to the backlog. “Pre-pandemic, we would get daily notifications from FCS of the available appointments due to no-shows. Now, it’s so much rarer for these openings,” says Douglas.

Despite the challenges of remote hearings, some pandemic era accommodations may remain in place. “Short-cause hearings such as motions and status conferences may continue via Zoom,” Judge Douglas says, “Trials and long causes with witnesses will eventually be in person.” Zoom has launched a “government platform” with heightened security features, and the Judicial Council of California offered to help cover the cost for counties that choose to adopt it; Contra Costa Superior Court accepted this opportunity. Judge Douglas estimates a savings up to 60 percent from the court’s current technology expenditures. The judge referenced Senate Bill 241, which would amend Code of Civil Procedure §367.8, enabling witnesses to appear electronically by stipulation. “The pandemic has forced the judicial branch to play catch-up with technology,” she says.

The Judges Request Help from Attorneys

Bench officers believed attorneys could do more to serve our community and assist the court in providing access to justice. Commissioner Donovan “appreciates the tremendous amount of talent in our bar,” and asks more attorneys to consider offering “unbundled services,” such as limited scope appointments to assist litigants with lower means in need of an attorney for a single hearing. Judge Douglas implores attorneys to assist the court in moving swiftly by practicing remote hearings with clients. “Attorneys need to instruct their clients about how Zoom works. So many technical issues could be avoided if the attorney and client had done a practice run!” she observes.

During the pandemic, many industries are assessing the necessity of in-person interactions. The judicial branch balanced its citizens’ rights to due process of law and adhering to emergency safety measures. As the prospect of “returning to normal” seems in reach, technology increased access to justice, notably in family law. Hopefully, these positive changes will remain in place, and the trend of embracing modernization will to advance our courts and access to justice.

[1]Contra Costa County Emergency Local Rules, Family Law, 1-10, inclusive, passed April 6, 2020.

Product of Divorce: A Companion Piece

Tips from a family law attorney who is the product of (amicably) divorced parents

Shane Nielson and I have worked together at Family Law Group for a little over two years. In that time, Shane has shared with me that he grew up in the middle of an acrimonious divorce, which inspired him in part to pursue a career in family law. My parents divorced too, but I was fortunate enough that it was low-drama, and my childhood was not shaped by the fact that my parents were no longer together. Their amicable divorce helped inspire me to pursue this career, because I want to be able to do my part to help my clients achieve the same result, when it is possible.

When I was 15 years old, my parents informed me that they were going to split up. My dad was moving out to a nearby apartment complex in Pleasant Hill, that was actually a few minutes closer to my high school. My mom was staying in the house. My parents’ marriage had been wrought with some turmoil, but I always felt like they had “gotten through it” and so it would be smooth sailing for the rest of their lives. After they announced their split, I was shocked at first, but quickly grew accustomed to it.

My parents never put pressure on me to spend equal time with both of them, because my dad would make efforts to come to the house and hang out with my mom and I. He would frequently come over for dinner, and would be at all of my swim meets, water polo games, and other school events. One of my dad’s favorite things to do was to come over and mow the lawn at our house, and I would see him out there every Sunday without fail. Some of our neighbors did not even know that my parents had split. I would usually spend one full week out of the month with him at his apartment, but it was never compulsory- it was always based around my needs and my schedule.

From left: my mom, my brother, me, and my dad at a friend's wedding in 2009

From left: my mom, my brother, me, and my dad at a friend's wedding in 2009

Throughout my adolescence and early adulthood, I frequently got feedback about how “unusual” my parents’ relationship was, and I agreed. I was privy to the drama my friends with divorcing parents were living out by comparison, and I felt sympathy. Since beginning my career in family law, I have come to appreciate the efforts my parents utilized more and more. My parents could have easily chosen to fight with each other, but instead, they actively agreed to be flexible, work with each other, and respect each other’s interests and rights as parents. Based on their “happily divorced” ending, I have generated a few tips of my own to piggyback off of Shane’s:

Answer your children’s questions candidly and age appropriately

Children going through a divorce have different needs based on their developmental stages. Chances are that both parents have read some literature about children’s needs throughout their lives. There are some great books and other resources out there about children’s needs while amidst a divorce. Kids will naturally have questions whose answers go beyond the “Mommy and Daddy still love you” and “this is not your fault” answers. It is important to do your homework about how to answer these questions, and read up on what the experts have to say.

One thing I really respect about my parents, especially my mom, is that she dealt with my teenage angst surrounding the divorce with a firm resolve. She refused to take my snotty remarks personally, and she answered my questions to an appropriate degree. When I tried to push her over the line, to see if I could goad her into speaking poorly about my dad, she would simply say: “I am not going to say anything negative about your dad. We did not make it as a married couple, but we made you, and we love you. And we’re going to continue working together.” This would usually quiet me down, and placate whatever angry feeling I had towards her or my dad.

Counseling for Everyone!

Shane already brought up this tip, but it’s so important that I’m bringing it up again. The way my mom was able to deal with my angry teenaged outbursts, while in the middle of a divorce, AND a demanding career as a school district administrator, was that she made it a priority to take care of herself through regular counseling. Counselors can help you talk through how to approach difficult topics with family, especially your children or ex spouse. They can give you a “script” of what to say, and how to react appropriately under certain stressful stimuli. I always recommend that my clients pursue counseling, no matter what level of conflict exists in their dissolution. Divorce marks the end of an era, and the transition is stressful and emotional. Even happy divorcees must deal with a sense of loss and disappointment. Children are the most vulnerable during this time.

I saw my own counselor too during this process. As Shane mentioned in his apt observations, it was important for me to know that there was someone on my side. My therapist helped me understand my anger towards my parents, and helped me be able to stay focused on my goals and forgive my parents for their split. It helped me with my own emotional growth, and I still see the positive effects of that therapy to this day.

Structure your settlement around the goal that each person gets to survive and thrive

California community property law states that the community interest in property shall be divided 50/50. However, this is the fallback position if people cannot agree. For each and every asset, it does not always make sense to split everything perfectly evenly. It helps to think of the property division in terms of what is needed to survive and thrive in the future. Decisions around support (child and spousal) should also be construed in terms of each person’s future financial needs and goals. Ideally, each spouse will be able to self-support. If one parent has been out of the workforce for some time, and is unlikely to ever be able to earn close to enough to maintain the marital standard of living, then long-term spousal support is usually appropriate. But sometimes a more favorable property division to the spousal support recipient can be a suitable replacement for spousal support, or a justification for a reduction in support.

My family was fortunate in that both of my parents were self-supporting. Both parents had well-paying jobs with good benefits that were secure for their financial futures. My dad made more than my mom, but my mom made enough. So rather than taking a piece of chalk and drawing a line down the middle of every asset, my parents made trades looking towards the financial future rather than dwelling on what everything was worth in the moment. My mom gave up alimony but got to keep the house. Each parent got his or her own pension. And that was that. Now each of my parents is a homeowner, and happily retired and financially secure.

Remember that co-parenting does not end at age 18

One of the more difficult situations faced by divorced or divorcing parents is how to handle their kid’s post-high school education. Most 18-year-olds are not ready to be self-supporting the moment they receive their high school diploma. I’d say almost 100% of high school kids are not ready to pay for their own college, trade school, or other training program. While financial aid for college can be an option, there are several unknowns regarding the future of that federal program. Not all parents can afford to send their children to college. But for those who can, it is important to set up agreements regarding how tuition and living expenses will be handled.

Absent an agreement, the California courts have no jurisdiction to order support for a child over 18 (unless that child has special needs and meets certain requirements). So absent ironclad agreements regarding college expense sharing, there will need to be some cooperation between the divorced parents. It is always a good idea to set up college savings plans, like 529 accounts, and each parent can contribute a certain amount periodically until college.

For the umpteenth time this article, I again am compelled to admit that I am fortunate. My parents could afford to send me to my dream school, UC Davis. They could even afford to pay my living expenses, so I was not forced to work long hours to pay rent, but I always had part-time jobs to provide me with spending money. My parents worked their arrangement outside of their divorce decree- this is not always advisable, but for my parents it worked out fine, because there was trust and mutual respect.

Regardless of the college expense sharing arrangement, children are going to want to be equally part of both parents’ lives, and the milestones of adulthood are much better when everyone is present and happy: graduations, weddings, birth of grandchildren, etc. Removing the tension from these happy occasions is a gift that children will always appreciate, and which will help them thrive in their own adulthood.

To this day, I still look at my parents’ relationship with a level of disbelief. As I grow older and handle more cases, I grow to appreciate more and more the amount of work and sacrifice my parents put into having a good relationship with one another. Now I know this is not the solution for everyone, and having a good relationship with your ex spouse is a two-way street- both parties need to be 100% on board in order for it to work. But the payoff can be so worth it. I’ll close this article with one last anecdote:

When I graduated from law school, my graduation ceremony was a crowded mess. My parents, sister, brother, sister-in-law, niece and two nephews were all in attendance, but seating was limited. My sister managed to finagle some seats for my parents, while my brother and sister-in-law stood with the young kids, since they were happier not having to sit still for so long. My sister later told me about an especially tender moment: my name was called and as I walked across the stage to receive my JD, my parents looked at each other, tears welling in their eyes, and hugged each other. They each thanked the other for working together in raising me, and congratulated each other in my achievement.

This rosy picture of respectful co-parenting may not be within everyone’s reach. But for the sake of your children, I encourage everyone facing divorce to try- try shelving your anger, and choosing to say yes to amicable rather than adversarial co-parenting. Your future selves and your children’s future selves will thank you.